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, the most profound influence on the lives of their children. But to give them this wonderful opportunity and an incredible responsibility for a career, money or other property interests. What message would you send your child if all you do, your child receives the least amount of time, attention and interest? And more and more what is happening from a very young age (small children are in day care center located in 6 weeks!). Working day, you spend much time at work, and always at work and back, as you do with your child. If you work at home with you to bring your child receives even less time and attention.

What does a child’s self-esteem (self esteem) is not the most important thing parents of his life? Children want to feel important to their parents. Where did you decide to spend the most time and effort Take your child to soccer practice? <-! next page ->. is observed, the time is not really good with your child Children need to feel and know that she is the most important part of your life, you will need something special .. You must feel they are worth your time and attention. You should know that you are really interested in them.

change in our society of the importance of such things as morality nontangible, values, relationships and family, material things as a career, studying and expensive house, luxury cars, leisure and luxury has caused our children to be angry, unmotivated, indifferent, and feeling unloved (they may not even recognize that they feel that way). We came for all the things that is really not an important value. Have you ever heard someone say, “It is like a good person because he has a Ph.D.?” Or, “I love him because he has a Ph.D.,” We love someone because of who they are. How do they treat us. Completion of an act or state as a great athlete or <-! next page -> always a PhD does not mean you’re a good person .

Without naming names or bashing anyone in particular, we all know, actors, athletes, politicians and others of questionable character. Getting a college degree does not necessarily make you a good person. But this is what builds our society. We can automatically assume that cancer researcher, a good man, it’s because of what he does for his career and society. Maybe he does simply because he likes to do research. Maybe she does it because she finds it difficult and loves solving problems. How he lives his life outside the laboratory will show whether he really a caring person. Think of an aeronautical engineer. Did he go into this profession because it makes people, or because he likes planes and likes to design them? I’m not saying that people like the researchers cancer and aircraft engineers do not care about the people, many of these people may have to enter. <-! next page -> occupations, to assist people My point is the emphasis and importance we attach to . Things. Cancer Research course is important, and the design of a good airplane. But what are they like outside the workplace? What kind of person are they? And if they have children, What kind of parents are they? We assume that it is a good man because of his work and what it does to society, but how it is like a father. He has anywhere near the thought, same creativity, effort and time to her children? The following advertisement in my local newspaper article illustrates this point the introduction of a new doctor at a local hospital here it is: .. “… Happy endocrinology specialist Dr ——–. In his spare time Dr. welcome. ——– Enjoys playing acoustic classical guitar, sailing and spending time with his family. “Not only that his family has received his free time, but they get the last part a little more time. In the attempt to be fair, one could understand that the majority of the day is his medical practice to do, but how sad to think that his family runs into his other “leisure” in a pot .. And we wonder why our families fall apart and our children have problems. These are some examples of careers / jobs that we focus on things to mark. In our society there are almost as many examples that the jobs are.


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